Relationships don’t depend on any fixed formula. You never know how it takes turns and twists and how that plays with your life. Valentine Day is near and again, like every year, partners will get more than excited to celebrate the day in their unique ways. Today, the definition of love relation has changed a lot. That era of getting married to whom you dated or to whom your parents have chosen is almost gone (though there are some relationships like that). As the lifestyle has changed a lot, the couples are taking much time to commit and to be in the relationship.
It is a harsh reality that you may not spend this year Valentine’s Day with the person whom you have spent the earlier one. And that is not at all anything to criticize. There are several issues that come out when you are together or you are living together. Yes, instead of getting married, the young generation prefers to live with the person of their interest to know whether it will work or not. If not, then there is no way to ruin lives by dragging a failed relationship, right? But, as I said, love never listens to any pre-destined formula. It has its own way and in one turn of life, you suddenly realize you are madly in love with your dating partner; you have found your soulmate in him/her. Now, the first thing you need to know whether the opposite one feels the same way you do or not. On this Valentine’s Day, know whether your partner loves you true or not. How?
Here are certain things you should concentrate on
1. The Arrangement of Something Special on V-Day
To most of the couples, Valentine’s Day is really special. You must have some plans and ideas to make your day awesome. Now, if you are seeking answers whether your partner loves you or not, there is no better day to test your bond now. If he/she is completely into you, they will know well about your likes and dislikes. They will know how to make you happy and make you feel special on Valentine’s Day. Therefore, your partner will arrange things like that. Maybe, you prefer a candlelight dinner at a cozy restaurant or its just bouquet of roses at your doorstep early morning; if your partner does things to woo you and make you love him/her even more, understand that he/she feels the same way you do.
2. OMG! Is It a Ring!
Now that is the bang on thing to realize your date is so much into you! Imagine, you take the bite of your favorite cake and your tongue rolled into a beautiful ring that you always wanted from him! You should not doubt anymore on your date that he loves you from the bottom of his heart. The ultimate thing is if your partner proposes you on this Valentine’s Day and you are also dreaming of a life together, you can rely on him for the rest of your life.
3. Is Your Partner Willing to Take You to His/Her Parents?
This is really a tricky point, but you need to be very precise to evaluate this issue. What you need to evaluate is the stage of your relationship. If you are at the point where you are ready to take your relationship to a step ahead, then you can consider this point. Is your partner willing to take you to his/her parents? Or at least, have they mentioned about you to their parents? If not, then you can slow your pace a bit slow. Have you talked about this early? Does your partner strangely quiet on this issue or not willing to discuss this much? If so, then you have every right to doubt on his/her actions. On the other hand, Valentine’s Day is the best time to meet your partner to your parents. If you love him/her truly, think about your future.
4. Is Your Girl Too Demanding?
When you are in love, it just feels out of the world experience, isn’t it? You feel like to bring every treasure of the world to her right now. And if it is a special occasion like Valentine’s Day, you will go crazy to buy something exclusively for your girlfriend. But, does your girlfriend really want the stars and the moon on V-Day? Now, that is really crazy! True love doesn’t depend on the price tag. If your girlfriend checks out the brand and the price tag once you gift her anything, then it is really the best time to think once again.
5. Does Your Man Only Think of ‘That’ Only?
You may have imagined for a romantic date on Valentine’s Day, but your date has ‘another’ idea of it. Actually, it is really difficult to be with a man who thinks of sex first. After all, you are on a special date and things have to be in a special way. If you are comfortable with his way of life, then it’s OK. But, if you are not, especially, when you see things only end up in having sex only, you may think twice about the relationship. Love is hardly present there in maximum cases.
6. Both of You Have Trust on Each Other
Finally, this is the most important issue that both of you must have if you are planning to spend your life together. With time, love often becomes slow and deep, but it is the trust that overpowers your every emotion. Do you ever think how your grandmother and grandfather are in strong bond after 50 years of marriage? They have loved each other intently and that intensified because they trusted each other throughout.
Play the Love Game Very Carefully!
So, if you are also planning to start a new life with your partner, Valentine’s Day is the best time to know whether your partner loves you or not. Remember, one thing; life is full of surprises. You will meet people now and then. Be careful while choosing your soul mate. Again, you may be in love with your partner and want to spend the rest of your life. But, the opposite person may not be willing in that. Be brave and confident. If he/she is not ready to start a new life with you, respect that decision and also have your self-respect. Someone somewhere is really waiting for you.